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'Intimacy-by-Tango'

A unique workshop for couples

Connect without words

Connection, the bliss of communion, is perhaps the most sought-after kind of joy on the planet.

Every couple starts out relishing the connection, the electric spark between them. Over time, we need ways to keep re-igniting that spark, to keep finding fresh ways to connect, so that we're not just repeating the same conversations we had last week.
The bliss of wordless communion is the pursuit of Argentine Tango, and is known among tango aficionados as 'Tango High'.
Tango has the reputation of being difficult to learn, which is why this workshop is so exceptional in making accessible to couples with no previous experience a glimpse of the intimate connection so prized by accomplished tango dancers.

Experience Something New Together


Most couples shy away from tackling lingering issues because we don't know how to go about it productively. The worry that we'll make things worse can put us off from trying anything at all.

If only you knew how to hear your partner's secret thoughts! If only you could decipher what's playing into how they're feeling and acting!

If only you could make sense of the conflicting feelings in your own heart.

That would give you something tangible to work with, and help you move beyond feeling paralysed and helpless.

If you are to re-build your heartfelt connection, it's essential that you dare to reveal to your partner what's been lying buried in your heart, and find a way to hear them better, too.

Couple coaching with Margarita can help you achieve this, in a safe and non-judgemental environment.

Once you've achieved a new level of mutual understanding, you can then begin to develop your relationship skills in the areas where you need it most.
Experience something new together
Have fun learning together in a tangible, in-the-body way at this unique innovative workshop
Less talk, more learning
This workshop gets going quickly, to let you experience the power of playing together the Tango way for yourself.
Experiential
You learn by doing, and then by refining what you've already achieved.
Safe space
A guided discussion follows each activity, which helps you grasp the subtleties and supports you with mastering the practical tasks.
Positively Life-Changing

"The guidance I've received from Margarita has been positively life-changing. After each session I enjoy with her, I end up with another glorious nugget of self-realisation that has a profound impact on my mental wellbeing and my day-to-day life.

Ahead of my first taste of psycho-synthesis with Margarita, I was experiencing a constant tightness in the head and chest, stress and burn-out. All of that has almost completely disappeared. I'm very confident it isn't just fleeting relief. That's because the depth of introspection she has navigated me through has astonishingly revealed some fundamental truths about my identity, behaviours, beliefs and desires.

I haven't felt this much at ease, self-confident and grounded in years."

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Adam Bates
Founder and Director of Ambigo CIC
Positively Life-Changing

"The guidance I've received from Margarita has been positively life-changing. After each session I enjoy with her, I end up with another glorious nugget of self-realisation that has a profound impact on my mental wellbeing and my day-to-day life.

Ahead of my first taste of psycho-synthesis with Margarita, I was experiencing a constant tightness in the head and chest, stress and burn-out. All of that has almost completely disappeared. I'm very confident it isn't just fleeting relief. That's because the depth of introspection she has navigated me through has astonishingly revealed some fundamental truths about my identity, behaviours, beliefs and desires.

I haven't felt this much at ease, self-confident and grounded in years."

Adam Bates, Founder and Director of Ambigo CIC


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    I'm here to help you get there.

    Wellbeing and Relationship Coach Margarita Steinberg
    Margarita Steinberg
    Wellbeing and Relationship Coach

    I will also continue to support you while you put these newfound skills into practice and for as long as you need.

    Ultimately, my goal as your coach is to help you re-discover the joy, the fun, the play that was so thrilling when you were first getting to know each other!
    Dance Tango Life | Margarita Steinberg | TEDxSussexUniversity
    My TEDx talk 'Dance Tango Life'
    In 2013, I gave a TEDx talk on the surprising things that devotees of Argentine Tango find the dance brings into their lives: a new medium for communication, an opportunity to heal, and even a sense of communion and peace within themselves.

    My work to make learning Tango more accessible laid the groundwork for what has since become ByHeart's signature workshop.
    Experience something new together

    "It VERY quickly became clear that Margarita has a unique gift for tapping into a part of both of us as individuals that neither of us had known or even cared to know. Then she introduced those parts of us to each other. Sounds simple (and a little bizarre, I know) but the effect has been astonishing.

    I honestly can't imagine a better investment in our family's future. Our 14-year old son said the other day, "Aw, you guys are so cute!" and I realised that it's been a long time since he'd seen us that way."


    Margaret P - Wife and Mother
    Come out to play together
    • A chance to experience something new
      This workshop is specifically designed for couples wanting to give something new a try in a relaxed, no-pressure atmosphere
    • No previous dance experience needed
      If you can walk around, you can do this
    • Discover new nuances for relating with each other
      The Tango format offers new approaches to relating-through-touch
    • Feel safe learning one baby-step at a time
      guided by an experienced Tango teacher and Couples Coach
    Pre-register your interest
    Dates for this workshop are currently unavailable, due to the COVID lockdown in the Brighton area.

    Once lockdown restrictions are eased sufficiently, this workshop will resume running, with social distancing maintained between couples, so places will be limited.

    Please get in touch if you'd like to be added to the waiting list.
    Read more about ByHeart's signature workshop
    The unique learning format used in ByHeart's signature workshop was developed in collaboration with the University of Sussex.
    Blog post
    This blog post delves into how this format works and how it came into being.
    Chapter in an academic publication
    Chapter 'A Tango for Learning' in the book ''Disrupting traditional pedagogy: Active Learning in Practice", published by the University of Sussex Press, June 2019.

    The chapter presents the innovative embodied learning format I developed in collaboration with the University of Sussex.