Coaching for Better Wellbeing and Relationships

Get Ready To Date

You Can Meet the Partner of Your Dreams.

You Just Need to Learn How.

Establishing a new relationship can feel daunting, for any number of reasons.

Do you need to put the echoes of previous relationships to rest, so you can start afresh?

Are you feeling unsure of what you're looking for? Or have you lost confidence in your attractiveness?

Is meeting new people and forging new connections draining and uninspiring?

If you're determined to find a way to meet your dream partner, you can. You just need to learn how.

I've struggled with relationships too.

Wellbeing and Relationship Coach Margarita Steinberg

Margarita Steinberg
Wellbeing and Relationship Coach

Like you, I've had bouts of feeling daunted, dispirited, bewildered. I've doubted myself and my chances of meeting that wonderful person!

I've felt stuck meeting the 'wrong' people, while the 'right' people seemed to be looking the other way.

Attempting to figure out on your own what you need to build solid satisfying relationships is incredibly hard.

We as a society support people with looking after their health, with learning an occupation, but solid positive guidance around relationships is much harder to get.

However, it is still absolutely possible for you to find a heartfelt connection with an attractive person who has the potential to become a partner and a playmate for the long term!

I've done this for myself and for clients, so I can help you do it too!

Ultimately, my goal as your coach is to help you learn to enjoy the process of getting to know new people. Then we work on how to embrace the joy, the fun, the play of finding your heartmate!

I'm a professional Wellbeing and Relationship Coach, and my skills include:

Coaching

Post-Graduate Certificate in Psychosynthesis Leadership Coaching (PGCPLC)

Counselling

Level 3 Award in Counselling Skills and Theory

Teaching

Level 3 Award in Education and Training

Holistic Health

Diploma in Shiatsu and Oriental Medicine

I am deeply passionate about helping my clients to achieve their wellbeing and relationship goals. This doesn't feel like a job to me. It's a great honour and pleasure.

Get Off the Relationship Rollercoaster

What would life be like if you had simple and practical tactics to make the process of getting closer to somebody easy, relaxed and straightforward?

Do you have a clear sense of who you are looking to bring into your life? Are you spending hours wondering what makes you an attractive proposition in the eyes of your desired partner?

Reveal how much there is to cherish about you, and customise strategies for success in dating that fit you to a T!

You can gain a new approach, a new perspective. Not so much new things to say, rather new things for you to feel.

Margarita helps people find relief from previous unsatisfactory relationships, re-discover the joy in their own company, and learn powerful strategies for creating new connections and creating the context for wonderful relationships.

Don't stay stuck where you are.

Show the world the real beauty of your nature. Get ready to date!

'Get Ready to Date'

Online Coaching Programme

Discover your power to create your next magical relationship.

The ByHeart 'Get Ready to Date' coaching programme helps people find relief from previous unsatisfactory relationships, re-discover the joy in their own company, and learn powerful strategies for creating new connections and creating the context for wonderful relationships.

This runs as a group programme for up to 8 people. Each programme is either female-only or male-only.

Click the arrows below to learn more about each step of the process.

Phase 1. Dissolve the Crust from the Past ▼

This phase is about clearing the decks, liberating you from distracting echoes from your past.

This step is essential because, if negative echoes are loud enough, they can block you from approaching your future with a positive outlook.

We all have misgivings about our future that are rooted in our past experiences, things you've heard, read, or lived through. Making space for addressing such misgivings helps you settle into the next phase with a free heart.

If you have a significant amount to unburden in this area, I would suggest that 1-to-1 coaching would be the best fit, to allow you ample time and the necessary individual guidance.

Results of Phase 1

You know beyond the shadow of a doubt that how things worked out for you romantically before is now in the past
You are able to envisage better things for yourself going forward
You are feeling grounded and calm, and ready to set goals and prepare for positive developments

Phase 2. Your Dream Partner Who Adores You ▼

This phase supports you to connect to your inner sense of what it's like to be around a wonderful attractive partner. The visceral experience of feeling their presence can already begin to nourish you.

You also need to connect to what your Dream Partner would appreciate and cherish about you. If you have any hesitations to credit that your Dream Partner would find you both worthy and attractive, helping you get beyond those will set you up to feel confident to meet such an adoring gaze.

These two steps equip you to recognise someone who's your kind of wonderful, when you come across them.

To help you begin to feel accustomed to better things, we will plot out a new regime of treats that are specifically designed to delight you - because you'll need to be ready to welcome generous and tender treatment.

Results of Phase 2

You have a clear picture / sense of who you'd like in your life and how their presence makes you feel
You have a vivid sense of what it is about you that would delight your Dream Partner
You are in the habit of treating yourself well, as a matter of course

Phase 3. Skills and Practice ▼

Knowing who who want and why they would want you has laid the groundwork. Now is the time to review your skills for meeting new people and forging new connections, and to top up any areas that could do with a boost.

Now that you're ready in principle, it's time to equip you for the practical.

How do you initiate contact with new people? How do you turn away those whose vibe doesn't chime with yours?

How do you keep the exchange going, once you've swapped named and pleasantries?

How do you make sure that the spark is there?

How do you help the relationship develop and deepen, and avoid it just coasting along?

These topics are accompanied by specific practice-oriented tasks, so that you can integrate the conceps and suggestions into your everyday habits. Any day can be fun when you've got these under your belt!

Results of Phase 3

You have mastered the skills involved in initiating contact, sustaining the connection with a new person, and deepening a new budding relationship
You have sustained support as you put the new skills and strategies into practice and make them your own
You feel ready to love and be loved, to be cherished and appreciated

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I often go into sessions with Margarita feeling conflicted and overwhelmed by feelings. Without fail, by the end of the session, I feel I can reclaim my power.

Armed with sticky notes, tools and new ways of thinking, Margarita has such a way of drawing it out of you and reinstating what you thought you lost. I cannot recommend her enough!

Lauren Burrows

"I often go into sessions with Margarita feeling conflicted and overwhelmed by feelings. Without fail, by the end of the session, I feel I can reclaim my power.

Armed with sticky notes, tools and new ways of thinking, Margarita has such a way of drawing it out of you and reinstating what you thought you lost. I cannot recommend her enough!"

Lauren Burrows

How The Course Works

Next Course Starts on 1st July. Groups of up to 8 people.

Bookings are open for the next online group course FOR WOMEN.

Sessions will take place once a week online in the format of live group video calls.

Groups are small and sessions focused on addressing your specific concerns and questions for each phase, with only minimal conceptual content.

This programme is NOT a video course. However, you will have choice around how much you participate in any of the sessions.

Each meeting will last at most 2 hours.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this course right for me? ▼

This programme is not suitable if:

You are more fascinated with the pain of your past than the possibilities for your future. Coaching can help you accomplish what you want, but it cannot make you want what you haven't yet decided to choose for yourself.
You are not willing to contemplate new perspectives, new angles on your situation and new options for action. If the familiar has such a compelling hold for you, your choices are likely to favour keeping things as they are, in which case engaging a coach is not appropriate.

Are the groups mixed gender? ▼

No, the groups are run separately for men and women.

This is to ensure participants can discuss their concerns freely and frankly.

Will there be video recordings of the sessions? ▼

Video recordings will be available to course participants for the duration of the course.

What if I have to miss a session? ▼

You will have the option to send in your questions/topics ahead of the session, and watch my response on the video recording after the meeting.

Video recordings will be available to course participants for the duration of the course.

What if some aspect of a session unsettles me, and I struggle to find calm and inner poise afterwards? ▼

The topic of romantic relationships touches on our most vulnerable places.

It's apt to make people feel defenceless, exposed, even helpless. These feelings are not always easy to handle on your own.

Even progress can sometimes bring on a shock response. This happens because a new success can take you into unfamiliar territory, or into a situation that you'd felt "couldn't happen" or was "too good to be true".

If you wish to explore a particularly sensitive aspect more deeply and in an unhurried setting, it may be worthwhile for you to purchase an individual coaching session. This would allow us to work at the pace that you need and address specifically the aspects that were proving harder to shift for you.

What if I need more support? ▼

The course does not include provision for individual support outside of the group meetings.

While on the course, you will have the option to purchase individual coaching sessions at reduced rates, should you feel the need for individual support.

Answers to Common Relationship Concerns

Think back to the last five people you found attractive. Did they all fit the 20-year-old-model mould?

The word 'attractive' means simply that the other person feels that being around you, getting closer to you, is better than being further away.

Thankfully, there are enough people on the planet, each with very individual wishes and preferences. If even just one of them is a match for you, that is all you need for a happy-ever-after!

Based on my experience with clients, it's the *not meeting people* that takes up most of the time! Think back: when you did meet someone, how long did that take?

You can build your skills for meeting people with ease, which will make sure that you enjoy meeting many people, and among them will be a few who will really rock your boat!

That way, you can enjoy the journey, and its benefits. :)

Many people develop a habit of veiling their attractiveness, stemming from a time when they felt uncomfortable in their surroundings.

There are simple steps that will help you access the fuller range of your self-expression, and give you direct control over how much 'heat' you're emitting, at will.

How easy or fun the dating process feels depends on how you approach it. Together, we will develop an approach to dating that will actually feel like fun!

This is a very understandable hesitation.

1-to-1 coaching may suit you better than a group course, but in any case, please know that you can uncover hidden depths to your erotic life, that will inspire you to want to share it with an attractive companion!

When strong emotions like anger or disappointment are claiming most of your inner space, it leaves little chance for your imagination to flourish.

1-to-1 coaching can help you find resolution for the strong feelings stemming from your past, so that you can make space for your dreams and plans to emerge.

Activate Your Relationship Superpower

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Margarita will contact you for a quick no-obligation chat, so that you can ask any questions about the programme before your booking is finalised.